Self love and self confidence is what I’m working on, but the feeling of not being good enough overshadows my realization,
I am enough.
ronomckenzie (via wordsnquotes)
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I still want you.
Lina A. (via wnq-writers)
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if you have to fight for your love from him then–
lose.
lose gracefully and
leave
because he will realize, one night,
that your absence cuts far deeper into his
soul
than any blade would.
aliff
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It starts off with him telling you not to look at other guys when you’re with him because it’s disrespectful. He will make you feel like chivalry is a chore or something he does to mould your impression about him but it’s not genuine. Then he’ll have a problem with you interacting with other men, even if it’s a sales man. Any eye contact made by another man will be your fault. He will start telling you how to dress and that you should cover up, even though he spends his spare time liking pictures of half naked women online and entertaining them. He will belittle your words, your opinions and silence your thoughts. He will make your accomplishments seem small. You will find yourself walking on egg shells just to avoid offending him. Anytime you have an argument or question his behaviour, he will call you ugly and insecure, worthless and claim that no other man would want you.
And then he will apologise with empty promises and act like everything is perfect. Don’t accept his apology. He’ll never change. This is not okay. Leave.
If this is your current relationship, please LEAVE immediately! This is blatant abuse and YOU ARE WORTH MUCH MORE than the feebleness and insecurity of some man!
I’m reading this in utter shock with how each sentence became more and more of the truth.
I can’t believe how long I let myself live in that toxicity.We all know that one guy.
I was with someone like this for about 3 years and nothing ever changes.. only continues to just get worse. These are only the beginning signs. Please leave as soon as you can. I promise you are worth more and deserve more.
The worst thing is, that’s a lot of guys we know. We just don’t realize it cause they only act that way with the girls they date. Which makes it even harder for those girls to get outside support
It sucks that this has so many notes because this happens to a lot of people. But on the other hand it’s spreading awareness
Wow i’ve been saying this for years but every time I do I get called a victim blamer and get told that “ITS NOT HER FAULT SHE STAYS”
yes it is your fault. You’re the ones who decide to date these idiots and put up with it
Leave when he starts acting like a dick. You can’t change him and you never will so don’t even bother trying
It’s crazy cause I see similarities between this post and my past behavior when I was in intimate relationships. I didn’t even think about the fact that I may be hurting my significant other until I started reading posts like this. I honestly regret my behavior. It’s true what the previous individuals have said though, you can’t change him because he thinks he is justified if he’s anything like I was. The best thing for you to do is save yourself.
I appreciate your honesty seriously!! I think it’s important for people to read what you wrote!